Adjusting to Parenthood: New Parent Counseling Can Help

Transitioning to parenthood can be extremely overwhelming,
isolating, and uncomfortable. Receiving individualized new parent counseling can significantly help. We are serving the State of Illinois.

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We Help Navigate Life’s Biggest
& Most Challenging Transition

New Parent Counseling can help if you are adjusting to parenthood.

We work with moms and partners who have recently become parents and may be struggling with the following: 

  • Identity Shifts
  • Division of labor
  • Mental load of motherhood
  • Emotional regulation
  • Balancing needs of multiple children
  • Relationship conflict
  • Lack of intimacy and connection
  • Lack of independence
  • Work/life balance
  • Challenges with toddlers
  • Organization
  • Isolation
  • Grief over loss of former life
  • Family dynamics and boundaries
  • Self-care 

What an New Parent Counseling session
looks like:

Sessions are typically 45-55 minutes long. We are comfortable with all things motherhood and you are welcome to have your baby with you and feed, change diapers, or whatever else you need to do. Our first session will discuss how you have been feeling lately, and we will learn a little more about you. We will then work together to create a plan to help you start feeling better.

Adjusting to parenthood is tough. Therapy can help.

Our therapists are trained to work with those struggling with these issues surrounding parenthood, and many are parents themselves. We want people to feel comfortable and feel they can talk openly about these issues without being judged. We will work together to determine issues and concerns, and get clear about how therapy can best help you feel better. A big part of therapy is working on emotional regulation, as well as building coping strategies.

 

You aren’t suffering alone – let’s get through this journey together.

What is Matrescence?

Matrescence is the physical, psychological, and emotional change that occurs during the process of becoming a mother. However, here at Matrescence we consider it to be ALL parenthood, not just motherhood. It is considered a developmental phase, much like adolescence, that can involve a variety of things such as hormonal shifts, body changes, identity reconstruction, and relationship transitions. The four components that contribute to the challenges of Matrescence are:

  • Changing Family Dynamics: adding a child or children to a relationship undoubtedly causes strain and stress
  • Ambivalence: the push and pull of wanting a baby close, but also an intense desire for space
  • Fantasy vs. Reality: anticipating parenthood will go one way, and then discovering it may look different
  • Guilt and Shame: fear that one may never live up to the “perfect” parent.

If you and/or your partner feel these challenges, contact us to learn more about
how we can help.

Therapists you can trust,
because they’ve been there.

    Our therapists are trained to work with those struggling with becoming a new parent, and many of our therapists are parents themselves.
    We want people to feel comfortable and feel they can talk openly about these issues without being judged. We will work together to determine issues and concerns, and get clear about how therapy can best help you feel better. A big part of therapy is working on emotional regulation, as well as building coping strategies

    Kate Blanco, LCSW

    Kate Blanco, LCSW

    She | Her | Hers

    Transition to Parenthood | Grief/Loss | Pregnancy Wellness | Medical Complexity | Single Motherhood 

    Bilingual: Spanish & English

    Haley Robbins, LCSW, PMH-C

    Haley Robbins, LCSW, PMH-C

    She | Her | Hers

    Perinatal Mental Health | Anxiety/Depression | Obsessive Compulsive Disorder | Birth Trauma | NICU | Infertility
    Paula Voigt, LCPC, CGIP

    Paula Voigt, LCPC, CGIP

    She | Her | Hers

    Fertility Challenges | Miscarriage | Grief/Loss

    Paula Flynn, LPC

    Paula Flynn, LPC

    She | Her | Hers

    Pregnancy and Postpartum Depression and Anxiety | Fertility Challenges | Couples Therapy | Family Dynamics

    Olivia Andres, LCSW, PMH-C

    Olivia Andres, LCSW, PMH-C

    She | Her | Hers

    High-Risk Pregnancy | Birth Trauma | NICU | Perinatal Mental Health 

    Sujai Chang, LPC

    Sujai Chang, LPC

    She | Her | Hers

    Fertility challenges | Stillbirth | Miscarriage | Birth Trauma | Couples Therapy | Perinatal Mental Health

    Bilingual: Spanish & English

    Gabbie Adams, LCSW, PMH-C

    Gabbie Adams, LCSW, PMH-C

    She | Her | Hers

    Postpartum Anxiety and Depression | Relationship Conflict | Twins and Multiples | High-Risk Pregnancy | Gender Based Violence

    Elizabeth Stasik, LCSW, PMH-C

    Elizabeth Stasik, LCSW, PMH-C

    She | Her | Hers

    Perinatal Mental Health | Fertility Challenges | Grief and Loss | Identity Changes | Trauma 

    Heather Hales, LCPC

    Heather Hales, LCPC

    She | Her | Hers

    Perinatal Mental Health | LGBTQIA+ Families | ADHD | Mindfulness | Blended Families

    Jackie Bellefontaine, LCSW

    Jackie Bellefontaine, LCSW

    She | Her | Ella

    Perinatal Mental Health | Birth Trauma | NICU | Grief/Loss

    KrystiAna Disbrow, LCSW

    KrystiAna Disbrow, LCSW

    She | Her | Hers

    Pregnancy Wellness | Postpartum Anxiety and Depression | Identity Changes

    Liisa Freeh, LCSW

    Liisa Freeh, LCSW

    She | Her | Hers

    Perinatal Mental Health | Family Dynamics | Parenting in the Toddler Stage | Mindfulness | Body Image

    Ashlee Casado, AMFT

    Ashlee Casado, AMFT

    She | Her | Hers

    Postpartum Anxiety & Depression | Perinatal Mental Health | Pregnancy Wellness

    Mindy McGlynn, LCSW, PMH-C

    Mindy McGlynn, LCSW, PMH-C

    She | Her | Hers

    Postpartum Depression and Anxiety | Fertility challenges | Birth trauma | Grief/Loss | ADHD

    Cassie Desir, LSW

    Cassie Desir, LSW

    She | Her | Hers

    Anxiety | Trauma | Miscarriage | Grief and Loss | Mindfulness

    Erica Cummings, LPC

    Erica Cummings, LPC

    She | Her | Hers

    Birth Trauma | Parental Burnout | Couples Counseling | Returning to Work/Career Shifts | Toddler Challenges | Pregnancy Wellness
    Alyssa Jesberger, LCSW

    Alyssa Jesberger, LCSW

    She | Her | Hers

    Perinatal Loss | Adjustment to Parenthood | High Risk Pregnancy | Pregnancy and Parenthood After Loss | Trauma

    Program Manager

    Caitlin Wahl

    She | Her | Hers

    Perinatal Therapist

    Clinical Manager & Therapist

    Arushi Mehta Towne, LCSW

    She | Her | Hers

    Birth Trauma | Parenting Children with Complex Medical Needs | Perinatal/Postnatal Anxiety and Depression | Infertility | NICU | Miscarriage/Loss

    Perinatal Therapist

    Founder & Therapist

    Lauren Ratliff

    She | Her | Hers

    Insurance & Payment Information

     

    We are currently in network with Blue Cross Blue Shield of Illinois PPO, BCBS Blue Choice, Cigna/Evernorth, Aetna, and United Healthcare plans. We strongly recommend checking with your individual plan to inquire about therapy benefits. You may be responsible for co-payment or other costs. If we are out of network with your provider and you would like to submit through your insurance, we are able to provide you with a receipt (known as a “superbill”). You are then able to submit this to your provider for reimbursement, if your plan provides this type of coverage. 

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    All sessions are held through video. You must be residing in Illinois.